[vc_row padding_top=”0px” padding_bottom=”0px”][vc_column fade_animation_offset=”45px” width=”1/1″ id=”” class=”post-content” style=””][text_output]How are you coping? Think about your work or school life. Are you managing? This world has convinced you that you should be able to manage and you have accepted it; but…are you? Human beings were not designed to function alone. As social creatures, we rely on others and we solve problems collectively. Consider the origins of the important discoveries that shape how we function daily. The clothes that we wear, even the books that read were made or written by someone else.
Survival of the fittest is an established philosophy. We were taught that we should be better than the other person. As a result, we live in competition mode and constantly try to be better than others. Better means showing strengths and hiding weaknesses. “We can do it, we will show them, we can do it!” That’s the world’s anthem. Everybody is trying to cope and prove their strength. Whether they can actually manage or not. But, managing things on our own is not natural for us, why do we think we should?
The fact is that we cannot live properly without relying on each other. That’s the definition of society. An individualistic mindset only brings misery and gives us more burdens that we need to bear. Society subtly encourages us to hide our weaknesses and bear our burdens with a smile. Nobody should see our struggles. However, our struggle or inability to manage is never the problem. The real problem comes with pretending that we can.
Burdens actually become much lighter when shared with someone who can help. Sometimes just talking about it can make a world of a difference. That’s when we know we are not alone or strange. Help is there, we chose not to ask for it. When we lower our guard and connect, everything becomes that much easier.[/text_output][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row padding_top=”0px” padding_bottom=”0px”][vc_column fade_animation_offset=”45px” width=”1/1″][vc_raw_html]JTNDc3R5bGUlM0UlMEEuZW50cnktdGh1bWIlMjBpbWclMjAlN0IlMEElMjAlMjAlMjAlMjBtYXgtaGVpZ2h0JTNBJTIwNDAwcHglM0IlMEElN0QlMEElMEEucG9zdC1jb250ZW50JTIwJTdCJTBBJTIwJTIwJTIwJTIwdGV4dC1hbGlnbiUzQSUyMGp1c3RpZnklM0IlMEElMjAlMjAlMjAlMjB0ZXh0LWp1c3RpZnklM0ElMjBpbnRlci13b3JkJTNCJTBBJTdEJTBBJTNDJTJGc3R5bGUlM0U=[/vc_raw_html][/vc_column][/vc_row]